Problems And Their Solutions!

It is said by many and also by something which I trust the most - physics. It says " There is always has to be solution to a problem". I believe in this too. But sometimes a phase comes in our life where we expect the solution in our favor and of course we are stuck in pain and don't realize the solution is already there. What I understand from my life is solutions are not always comforting or soothing you as they not meant to be based on our liking's or benefits or personal preferences. What may be is right for you, might be not correct for me. Or the situation could be- currently you are feeling little bad about the solution you have but may be in the future you will cherish this very same decision of your life. This is a very big dilemma, right? You can have everything but you don't own everything, you can do whatever you want to but sometimes your roots doesn't allow follow what your heart wants. I am bit confused here. If something which is said is already mine then why I have to struggle to get it or run behind it to understand its value. I am such a mess here. 

             The new cool trendy one says, If life gives you lemons - make lemonade out of it. What if, i dnt like lemonades. Okay wait, i coming to it - I am not even interested in selling my life lemonades. That is what exactly happens when you discuss your problem with others. You will end up buying your own life lemonade just made by others. What am i trying to say here is no one else can better understand the situation than the person who actually is going through it. So, when you are thinking on your problem and you reach to a point and you don't like how it ends. You start re-thinking it. And voila! You are stuck into an Infinity loop. Which means the process of thinking and not liking how it end is repetitive and never- ending which ultimately means you are not liking the solution of the problem you are stuck in and you are wasting your a lot of time in re-thinking the same stuff. Once, you are satisfied with your thought process, just end it. Focusing on the problem will only make it worse. It is not necessary, the end has to be always in your favor but it might favor someone else. Or may be it will take a little more time for you to comfort in how it is at the end and start liking it as positive change.

           Also a small note to the people who promises to stay by your side all the time and hear you out whenever you need them. Stop saying that !! I don't have to tell you the reason behind it why.

If you are really that kind of a person, you need not to say it. People who really trust you and rely on you will automatically approach you. If you don't mean it, don't say it.

          Also a note to the people who think they can dump all their stress and life shit on someone else without knowing what the other people are going through in their lives. Stop being selfish! Just because someone calls you buddy doesn't mean that they have given you right to you throw out all your craps on that person and feel relieved. Wait for the person to ask for it. And of-course you should be well aware of how much of stress to give off to that person.

Life keeps going, whether you find a perfect solution or not. Try to live it without having much burden on yourself. Don't be too harsh on yourself. You are responsible for own happiness and positivism. Focus on that.

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